Wednesday, May 21, 2008

A "New Day" in China



I am typing this blog from the legendary New Day Foster Home, where Libi spent the last 15 months of her life. As we told Karen (the New Day Director), "we all in Bloomington feel as though you, the staff and kids here are movie stars." However, unlike movie stars, they are more beautiful in person than they are on the web site.

We had to get up early, as you could tell from the post about Libi's cold, and take the van to the airport. When we arrived at the airport, it seemed as though it was going to be another one of those John Candy and Steve Martin travel days. However, by the time we found the New Day driver in the Beijing airport (7 hours later), we finally got a heavenly perspective and laughed. Anyway, Libi coughed her little "5 pack a day lady" cough most of the way to Beijing. She was even more of an attention getter than usual. No seizures however. After getting the bags to the van and passing a 6'10 Chinese girl, (Jacob was impressed) we made the 75 minute trek to NDC in rural Beijing.

I never pictured how far out this place is. It put so much perspective on Libi's treks to the hospital and how difficult that must have been. Anyway, it is a beautiful place in the country. It is a Business (for helping Chinese nationals have a fair place to learn skills and make a living), a Language school, (to help students and young adults perfect conversational English), and a foster home. Many of you have seen pictures of the foster home on the web site, but they don't do it justice. It is a very pleasant place for the kids, with great rehab facilities, a playground and classrooms. We were grateful to God for this place, the care Libi received, the sponsors that contributed to her care, and mostly the nanny that cared for her daily. Julia is a sweet lady, who clearly loves this precious child. As we have experienced ourselves, our hearts ache for her. Libi did get to spend some time with her, and we took some great pictures of Libi with Julia.

Waking up this morning, we questioned whether it was the right decision to come to New Day at the end of the trip. We quickly rebutted that God was sovereign and let it go. After the brief time with Libi's nanny, Karen brought us to the nurses office, where there happened to be the nurse, the resident doctor, and a visiting doctor from Mercer School of Medicine. So, that cold that you all were praying for today, was treated by not 1, but three medical providers in the most rural part of Beijing. How's that for a Great Provider. They even had some antibiotic and cold medicine to give to her. Praise the Lord. Anytime we begin to look at scheduling conflicts or adverse conditions, we need more of that Sovereign God perspective, amen?

Now the hard part... you know those movie stars I mentioned earlier. Turns out they are just as needy as those in Hollywood. Amy and I went in the toddler playroom after dinner and we were attacked. Let me preface this with a description of what New Day Foster home is - It is a fantastic place, where kids are loved and most importantly saved from the medical conditions that plaque their lives. It is an intense treatment foster home, meaning the really sick go there to get out of the grave and off the gurney. On top of all that, they have nannies, interns and staff that love them dearly. However, the reality of what we saw is this is only temporary. What these kids want is a ma ma and a ba ba. Those kids could not get close enough to you. They would fight over each other to have the prime spot in our laps. They are truly remarkable kids, and every one of them, with their medical baggage and all, would be a tremendous gift to anyone of us. (We have some stories for some of you that have favorites there, so please be patient and we will get some pictures and descriptions of their personalities.)

Friends, let's all get on the bus together. There are kids here that want a family. I know that blogs, stories, pictures and even video do not touch the reality of what we experienced tonight. We can only pass along the experience and hope that the Lord will take it a step further and personalize it for each one of you. Many of you have experienced it and have commented that the feeling can even be addictive. Wow, what a great drug to be hooked on.

We have said many times, and will continue to repeat it: "We could not have made it through any of this without the army of prayer in front and behind us." Almost every night we are overwhelmed to tears by your prayers, scriptures and encouragement left for us on the blog. Thank you each one, and praise you Father for your showering abundant love on us.

We will be arriving in Chicago tomorrow night, and all who are crazy enough to make the drive up there to she Libi place her feet on US soil as an American Citizen are absolutely welcome. Libi has had a traumatic few weeks, and though we would love all of you to experience her silky smooth skin and kissable cheeks first hand, we will limit passing her around to just her brothers and grandparents. Also, when we arrive home we will take the weekend (thru Monday) to get Libi comfortable with the house, her brothers, and sleeping in the Western Hemisphere, by leaving the phone off the hook and the doorbell unattended. I hope that you all understand our desire to see Libi bond and feel safe, before we throw too many people in front of her. We will be having an open house for everyone to see her on June 8th at the Hampton Inn in Bloomington. So, this is it for our in country posts. We love you and cannot thank you enough...

11 comments:

Molly said...

I'm so glad to hear that the visit to the home went well. Praise God for the doctors that He so graciously placed there just for Libi!!! That is so cool.

We CANNOT WAIT for you guys to get home.

Praying for travel mercies and a smooth transition home.

In Christ,
Molly

Anonymous said...

brad and amy and family,

I just read thru your blog and what we missed while we were in Ethiopia. It is so neat to see Libi's daily progress...the love of a family has great healing power (God sets the lonely into families Ps. 68:5&6).

I can relate a little bit with some of your fears...we had a few in Ethiopia too..I think we were tired and jet lagged...it is amazing to see the real Hope come out as we have had her home...she is making more eye contact, smiling and letting us comfort her. Her orphange was as good as they can be but there was still a flat affect on her face that is diminishing daily.

We so enjoyed being in Ethiopia but it is so good to be home. I think you are really wise to protect her from too many visitors right at first, she has had a lot of changes. I hope your flight goes well and sleep when she sleeps...you are in our thoughts and prayers!

In Jesus,
Jill and Andy

Anonymous said...

Brad,

Your post was great. You're right that looking orphans in the face and then having to leave them is a haunting, horrible experience, but ironically also inspiring and life changing.

If anyone will be able to relay the heart of God, to care for the orphan, it will be your family. We can't wait to see what He'll continue to do through you.

In the meantime :), we're praying you home and hope to see you SOON!!

Also, great warning for family and friends to sit tight and let Libi Faith adjust. You'll be glad you did this.

Love,
Christy, Josh, Mia, Ava and Kai

Anonymous said...

Brad,

Your post was great. You're right that looking orphans in the face and then having to leave them is a haunting, horrible experience, but ironically also inspiring and life changing.

If anyone will be able to relay the heart of God, to care for the orphan, it will be your family. We can't wait to see what He'll continue to do through you.

In the meantime :), we're praying you home and hope to see you SOON!!

Also, great warning for family and friends to sit tight and let Libi Faith adjust. You'll be glad you did this.

Love,
Christy, Josh, Mia, Ava and Kai

Linda Thomas said...

I sooo wish I could make the trip over on June 8th.. but our day is booked with soccer and Lauren's first dance recital!!! I'm praying for a safe return home and for Libi to be relieved of her cold QUICKLY. You guys are so great. Thanks for sharing your lives with us.

Linda

Sydney said...

Arnold Family,
How great is our God??
Pretty wonderful!! What a blessing Libi is. I can't wait for you all to get home. I hope that you will have wonderful and safe travels, and that Libi's cold will heal completely. My family is planning to be at the open house on the 8th. I 'm looking forward to seeing you all then. I have probably said this a lot but it has been miraculous to read your thoughts and see pictures too!

Wonderful and Safe travels,
Sydney S.

The Clements said...

I'm so glad you were able to visit New Day! Praise God for His provision of care for Libi Faith. Having experienced the foster home just a few months ago, I could relate to all that you wrote... especially the part about being mobbed in the play room :).

Sorry we won't be able to greet you at the airport. But after two recent trips to Chicago, I just can't subject Daniel to yet another 6 hours in a car. We are absolutely dying to see Libi Faith though! Daniel is SO excited that she has a forever family now!!

We are praying for your travel today! Can' wait to see you all!

Love, Lora

Alyssa Marie said...

You are on you way home!!!! When I woke up this morning you had been on the plane for 5 hours already. I immedietly started praying for you guys. I know when I came home I was so restless and anxious to get off that plane it seemed like it draged on for days. I cant imagine doing it with a little one! Cant wait to see you... just a few more hours! Love you lots

Irene said...

I'm so grateful you were able to post the pictures before you left China. Thank you!! Thank you!! I can't wait to hear about each beautiful child there! It was so good to hear about the medical care Libi received too! Our God is so good.

Last night, Brooklyn and I laid together and prayed over all the details of your travel and Libi's health. We praised God for this amazing journey He has carried you through and will continue to lead you on. "I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy...being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." Phil 1.3-5

We can't wait to lay eyes on all of you later today. We have been waiting for this day for so long!! As you can imagine, your boys are soooo excited!!!!! They were adorable this morning!! We love you so much and will pray fervently as you are now in the air that you are getting some rest and traveling well!! We will continue to pray for Libi's bonding and attaching to her family. God is faithful - He will finish what He has started. We'll be praying for your jet lag too. That can be tough. Your army will keep you covered in prayer though. We love you!!

Irene

Anonymous said...

welcome home, libi faith!!!! we love you already and look forward to meeting you once you are settled into your new home. we will continue our prayers for you and your fam. we thank our lord jesus for you and the miracle you are!!!
much love from the sugai family

Hope08 said...

Ellen Wylie shared your blog with me and I am so happy for your family! I pray that you made it home safely and you are enjoying every moment. When you have the chance I would like to find out about a young boy in one of your photos. I am looking to adopt from China and I feel in love with him. Ellen will have my information. No hurry though! Thank you and God Bless!

April

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